The saying goes ‘When the going gets tough, the tough get going’. But what happens when you know what you’re after is so far out of reach, that not even a miracle will get you over the line for a win.
What does happens is you understand that not everything is able to be achieved and you need to make the hard call of whether you continue moving forward in a direction where failure is the only outcome.
And while you continue to forge forward, thinking you can win, what are you really achieving? More pain, heartache and unforgettable suffering?
Is it time to cut your losses and accept that this is the one you are going to lose?
At the end of the day, some you win, some you don’t. So I’m glad that I’m here with friends I know, who will always have a smile for me.
We all have a time in our lives when we desperately want things to be different. Sometimes very different.
The situation we are in may have been our own stupid fault, or at other times, the situation was out of our control and can’t be changed, no matter what we do.
These are the times we need to understand the choices we have; live with the situation, or adapt so that we can continue living our lives and not stress out about the unchangeable.
The full stop at the end of ‘It is what it is.’ means that’s it, and the final option for that particular scenario. It doesn’t mean you have to like it, but other things can be changed to compensate for the unchangeable.
Many of us are trapped inside a box and need to think outside of it to make our lives better, physically, mentally and emotionally.
When we eventually think outside the box, not only does our outlook change, so does our life.
It all comes back to change, and how we let it impact our lives, go with the flow or sit in the same place and grow moss. And growing moss just doesn’t sound very appealing to me in anyway whatsoever.
I know that change doesn’t come easily to many people, and I’m one of those people who hates change. But to live a better and live a stress free life, I have had to learn to change and to adapt.
The dinasours never adapted, and we all know what happosned to them. Let’s not follow in their huge footstep and adapt so we can continue living.
Make a few changes and see the difference it can make. It can’t hurt.
Once the wheel stops turning, we are left at a standstill. It’s then at that point we begin to sit in one place and the rut sets in.
Like anything in life, once it stops, it collects moss, the same as a rolling stone that has stopped turning.
So it’s up to us to make sure that big wheel of life keeps turning. Without our drive and motivation we will end up the same as the moss covered stone. And that’s something we really don’t want, because frogs sit on stones covered in moss.
But staying motivated isn’t as easy as flicking a switch and turning on a light. It takes effort, and at times, lots of it. And this is when we need to dig deep and prove to ourselves we really want what’s sitting just out of arms reach.
There are different approaches when searching for motivation, but in the end, no matter how we dredge it up, it gets us there in the end.
Stay strong and positive. Your motivation is there, it’s just hiding amongst the layers of wrapping that comes with life.
There are days when we can see far across the ocean and everything is as clear as day. And then there are other days when no matter how hard we try, everything is about as clear as mud in a beer bottle.
During these times of non clarity we tend to lose sight of the future and the direction in which we want to head, making us doubt our own minds.
It’s not always easy to pick ourselves up and keep going, and we sometimes need a swift kick in the arse to jumpstart us into action. And wherever that kick comes from, it shouldn’t really make much difference. As long as we get going once again.
Most times we are kicked back into action by a family member or a close friend, and without these people in our lives we would easily slip into a rut and head down a slippery path of no return.
It’s those people we need to keep close to our hearts and minds, not just in a time of need, but whenever possible, as they will be there to help us through thick and thin.