It’s all too easy to give up when the going gets tough. But as the saying goes, the tough get going.
This is always easier said than done, but it doesn’t mean its not possible. With some dedication and lots motivation, there are very few situations that can’t be overcome.
As was the point as I walked through the Alfred hospital trauma centre during my last visit. I noticed a young man walking on crutches, the bottom half of his right leg missing. A car or bike accident perhaps? I don’t know as I didn’t stop him to ask.
By the way he moved, it made me feel he had accepted his injury, and it was not going to stop him from getting on with his life.
This is also the case with many athletes who have overcome major injuries and have continued competing. Perhaps not in the same sport they were in originally, but they have moved on and continued with their lives as best as they can.
So what disappoints me is when I hear other people complain and whinge about how they are hurting from an accident, or from other injuries. These are the people who want to be wrapped in cotton wool and have everything done for them. They want the world to feel sorry for them and want nothing but sympathy.
These are the people who need to dig deep and find the motivation to move forward. It won’t be easy, and there will be hard times. But it will be better than sitting on the couch and moping about their situation.
We are all dealt a hand of cards, it’s up to us to decide how we play them.
With everything we do, there will be times when we fail, or fall over. This is something that none of us are immune to, failure.
No matter what it is we do in our lives, and no matter how good we think we are, failure is inevitable.
There is nothing wrong when we fail, it builds character and makes us stronger, but what can be considered as failure, is the strength, or will to get up and keep trying.
There will always be a fear of failing again a second time around, but where there is failure, success is always close by.
And even when when we finally get back up to try again, we may once again fall over. But that’s never a reason to stop trying.
Get up and give it your best shot, and not just one time.
Perfection is one thing we all seek, even if we don’t admit it to others or to ourselves. We are born to achieve the best we can in the very short time we have on the third planet from the sun.
Then there are times that no matter how hard we try, we fail. And there is no shame in failing, we can’t be perfect. Even when we try for perfection, it’s just out of our grasp.
But then, even when we are striving for perfection, are we doing it for ourselves, or are we trying to please others in our lives?
When we are young we are out to please our parents. In sports, at school and in the way we live our lives. Always trying to make others happy, even though we tell ourselves we are doing for personal goals.
Later in life we are out to please a partner, keeping them happy, making them smile and giving them everything they could possibly want, or need.
This is where we fail. No matter how hard we try we will at some point lose our way, falter, stumble and fall.
This shouldn’t make a big difference in a strong relationship, but at times it does. And this is where we need to once again strive for what we consider perfection.